Identity
"They could retain their identity even when exiled to a foreign land." Leadership by John C. Maxwell
Identity theft is a common occurrence in today's society. It consists of stealing credit cards, licenses, personal information, etc. Basically, it is more of a "paper identity" than your true identity. My concern is the theft of one's true identity. The deeper you that is in your heart and soul. A little more valuable than some plastic cards and numbers. I believe that there is a rising "true identity" theft crisis. Only one problem....no one can find the perpetrator.
I will tell you how you can find out who this mean man or woman is! Go very quickly to the nearest mirror and take a look at the perpetrator that is staring back at you! We are the culprits. We are the ones responsible. The thing is...you can't really steal from yourself can you? It is more of a hiding away. You could very well label it the chameleon effect.
The chameleon effect usually takes place in social situations. I use social broadly, basically anytime we are surrounded by other people(work, church, play). Our closest friends usually do not suffer the wrath of the chameleon. They know who we are and what we are about. Acceptance is common ground. The problem is when we come in contact with those individuals that are different from our personalities. The idea that comes to mind is oil skimming across water. Oil and water do not have a choice. We do have a choice whether we want to mix-in with people. The hindrance comes from within. We come into a group with a preconceived notion that we don't want to blend in. These are not our type of people. Well, I got good and bad news my friend. Bad news is that ALL people are OUR type of people. "For there is no respect of persons with God." Romans 2:11 The good news is.... ask and you shall receive!
Ask for what? A lack of respect! How many times did you ever think that you would be asking Jesus for a lack of respect? Ha! Ask him to take away the stereotypes in your head. Take away the need to be a chameleon. Trash the preconceived notions. Abstain from pushing the different people away and learn to embrace them. Leave the safety of your nets. Jesus did it all the time. He interacted with lepers, the blind, the lame, tax collectors, and all manner of people. He saw them with the eyes of the innocent. Saw them as innocent children that were lost in the chaos of life. A child amidst a maelstrom of sin. We must learn to view everyone as Jesus did.
Transformation will occur. We will actually be like Jesus. Godlikeness is taken on. It is how we actually put Christ on. The diversity of people should be held near to our hearts. Variation is a wonderful fact of this world. We are seeing the different views of Christ. Various traits of Jesus that has been put in each of us. Its like seeing all the distinct facets of the jewel of Jesus shining through people all around. You never know what treasure will be seen in another. What do they have to teach us? Embrace the difference all around you! Don't deny what Christ has to show you through other people.
The chameleon effect cuts two ways. Restricts us from getting to know others and from others getting to know us. God made us each uniquely. Do not hide the personality that God gave you. It is meant to be a blessing to others. The shelf in the back of your mind is no place to be putting it. A facade does not bring glory to Jesus or God. A facade is false, and there is nothing false about Jesus. He is the truth. Live out the truth that God has embedded in you. Bring glory to the Father. Do not dishonor him by hiding the beauty of your soul. On a final note, a lyric came to mind. I'm sure God feels this way. When it refers to "my heart" in this lyric, he's talking about your heart. For it is his when you submit to God. "Quit playing games with my heart..." Backstreet Boys
kenny